dopted mother is also mother

Ganma is also Ma Wen / Yang Guopeng. When I was six years old, I was weak and sickly. My mother often touched my head and wept secretly.. During the Dragon Boat Festival, my mother took me to the two aunts’ home in Wuxing Village ten miles away and asked for advice from the well-informed two aunts.. Two aunts told my mother to worship the dopted mother, so she could transfer the goods. I had to worship a dopted mother with many sons and many blessings.. However, the rural people are superstitious and fear that worshipping the cadres and relatives will dilute their own destiny. They are not close to people and will not agree easily. Two aunts then recommended her cousin to be my godmother.     After lunch, two aunts invited her cousin to come home, and three women sat around the table on the ground to have a conversation, and cautiously said the worship of relatives and cadres.. When I said these words, I played with my cousin on the kang of the second aunt’s house, always secretly listening with my ears and secretly watching from time to time.. I found her staring at me from the moment she entered the door, with a gentle and cordial smile on her face. When my cousin and I greeted her, we took out some candy and gave it to us.. I counted and gave me more than my cousin! When listening in on the adults, I was nervous and scared. I was afraid my mother would be refused and embarrassed, and I was afraid that if it happened, what should I do?? Although I have already had a favorable impression on her, she is older than two aunts and naturally older than my mother. I am somewhat unhappy in my heart and a little uneasy.. She grabbed my mother’s hand and kept smiling, while listening to two aunts introduce my family, she studied my facial expression. I also had a naughty smile and pretended to play with my cousin.. She thought for a moment, then readily agreed, saying that she was in charge of these things at home and asked my mother to go home and consult my grandfather and my father.. Then I let go of my heart.     When I got home, my mother and father went to see grandpa ( grandpa and Sanbo lived in Sanbo Old Street’s home at that time ) and left me alone at home waiting for news. I took out the remaining two pieces of candy from my trouser pocket and lovingly peeled off one piece and put it in my mouth. The other one was my intention to honor my grandfather.. Sweet silk candy is more delicious than the one grandpa gave me. Grandpa gave it hard, but these candies were sweet and crisp. In addition to eating with my cousin, I secretly chewed one at the second aunt’s house.. I was a little hesitant when I thought of worshipping the dry relatives. She was getting older, but she looked at my eyes as a soft warm thing, the same as when my mother looked at me, and her family still had plenty of good sugar to eat. At that time, my family had just moved into a new house and had not given me the money to eat snacks. Only grandpa would give candy, and it would take a long time to do so.. I can guess, she also likes me very much, otherwise how could she promise me to share her blessings and take advantage of her own son? Want to know when playing with my friends in the next two aunts’ house, I saw that the reed chicken in the aunt’s house threw out the chicks from the eldest sister-in-law’s house that had robbed her children of food, so it was easy to escape from under the threshold.. When mom and dad came back, they said grandpa wanted me to make my own decision. When I say what I think, especially if I think she is too old, it makes mom and dad laugh, saying that it is a blessing for my whole life to recognize her as a dopted mother, and there is no room for me to play too much.!     So, on the auspicious day after the wheat harvest, my parents led me to the second aunt’s house again, prepared a four-color ceremony, and worshipped my parents under the leadership of the second aunt and the second uncle. I vaguely remember walking a long way to get there.. At that time, the dopted mother’s house was still living in the old house, with the heavy black door wide open, the threshold raised early to lean against the nearby woodpile, the yard was cleaned cleanly, and the second uncle shouted loudly: ” Brother 16, your dopted son is here.”! ‘ I saw several big brothers spouting from the innermost room, followed by a middle-aged man and a woman who came out of the second room, the dopted mother of Li Lissoro and the new dopted father, all of whom were greeted with warm and affectionate smiles. I quickly fell to my knees and kowtowed while shouting respectfully at the dopted mother and the dopted father in my mouth.. Dry dad ha ha smiled and simply agreed to help me up. dopted mother also smiled bright and clear, held her arms close, and greeted everyone into the room to talk with dopted father.. She hugged me and introduced some of my brothers. Looking at a few strange but cordial smiling faces, I know dopted mothers have already told the family about the worship of relatives, and everyone welcomes me. My hanging heart finally became steadfast and the strangeness disappeared … Ah, I remember when I was 12 o’clock at noon, the youngest brother invited me to put firecrackers and bow down to the Buddha worshipped by fathers and godmothers.. At lunch time, under the guidance of my second uncle, I offered tea to my parents and received red envelopes from them. This kiss was completely worshipped..     The dopted mother’s family treated me so affectionately that when my parents came home, they purposely left me for a few days. In the evening, I hugged dopted mother and slept soundly. I actually took up my little brother’s arms. During the day, I turned with dopted mother after driving out, and dopted mother kowtowed to Buddha. While dopted mother was cooking, I chewed all kinds of snacks or candies in my mouth and watched. dopted mother loathed me to move my broom and pull a bellows. Every time I wanted to help her do what I could, dopted mother always stopped me and said, ” My baby will not do it and told you guys to get it.”. ‘ dopted mother took me with her when she came to the neighbor’s house and said proudly: ” This is my son, although he is not old, he can read a lot.”! ‘ dopted mother’s popularity is good, and the neighbors I saw took my hand rare. I followed dopted mother’s introduction and shouted to people consumedly square square. I often got all kinds of snacks and desserts presented to me, and my trouser pocket was full of them.. When I get home, I will leave it for my brothers. The dopted mother always said that if she couldn’t eat, she hid under the pillow to save for herself. At breakfast, my little brother and I are egg custard. My egg custard always has more yellow and bright rapeseed oil than my little brother. Other brothers all eat porridge like dopted mothers.. The brothers did not complain at all. Several brothers came home from school at noon every day, ate lunch and took me to play with them. They showed me their collection of comic books and told wonderful stories.. The dopted mother watched a group of children grow up happily, and the smile on her face was even more brilliant..     Gandad is a worker in the provincial construction of Liujian, and his family’s economy is relatively broad. He often buys snacks to satisfy his children’s appetite. Ganma always fears that I will eat less. When doing housework, she also asks me if I still have anything in my pocket and whether I want it or not.? Look at my hard nod, just rest assured to continue to work. Dry dad had to go back to work in the provincial capital on time, and dry mom had to take a lot of children to live alone in the home. In addition to doing housework inside and outside, she had to go to the fields to plant crops and do farm work.. In the afternoon, after school, her brothers led us to gather wheat ears, light corn and plant dry tobacco. When planting dry tobacco, the eldest brother and the second brother went to the canal to carry water. Little brother and I will use gourd ladle to pour dry tobacco. The third brother accompanied dopted mother and put a layer of wheat straw on the watered dry tobacco roots to preserve soil moisture.. The dopted mother always feared that I was tired. She called me to her in a moment, wiped my sweat with her handkerchief, and asked me if I was tired, thirsty, hungry or jealous.. The little brother also cried out to buy me popsicles to eat when he came home, and also took my cousins and cousins from the second aunt’s home to play at home.. Once, playing with my brothers at home, I ran so fast that I accidentally bumped my head and drum a small bag. When dopted mother saw me, she hugged me nervously and blamed my brothers for not being careful and called on my brother to get clean tiles. She took them and wiped them with a handkerchief and gave them to me for research. She also read Buddha in her mouth and prayed for Buddha’s blessing.. Indeed as expected after a while, the bag went down and the burning pain disappeared.When Uncle Er wants to send me back to my home ( Uncle Er was driving a car to run and transport in the motorcade ), the dopted mother not only packed me a lot of delicious food, but also hung a prayer string around my neck for many years..     When I got home, my next aunt heard me introduce dopted mother’s house with flying colors. she couldn’t help teasing me, saying that I had been staying at the dopted mother’s house for a long time, and all my talk had brought the dopted mother’s accent, and that she would be the dopted daughter in the future.. I nodded honestly and said I was the senior of dopted mother’s family. During the Chinese New Year, dopted mother came to my family to visit relatives. In addition to the new New Year’s money, she gave me two big red lanterns. Although my uncle and aunt also gave me a lot of lanterns, I always took the lanterns from dopted mother to walk through the streets and lanes every night. I accidentally collided with other people’s lanterns, lit candles and cried a lot..     Every time I went to Wuxing Village to visit relatives, my family first went to Er Yi’s house because Er Yi’s house was close to the intersection. As soon as everyone had a drink of water, I was in a hurry to yell and want to visit Gan Ma’s house.. Two aunts ran on me with a smile. They are immature dogs and kids, and they don’t know what good food dopted by dopted mothers for me. They are so close to dopted mothers that they don’t even want to stay with their aunts.. See I was stubborn, two aunts called my cousin to take me to, let my cousin take a message to dopted mother, said my parents later in the past. Every time I went, my parents came back to my house in the afternoon, and I lived in dopted mother’s house for a few days, enjoying the lively activities of a large group of boys, and more enjoying dopted mother’s eccentric love. Of course, the dopted mother’s family often come to our house and walk around. Every time the family sends the dopted mother back to the five-star village, I will reluctantly leave the village and watch dopted mother’s back, unable to help crying for a while. Sometimes dopted mother looked at me sad. If it was a holiday, dopted mother would simply take me back to Wuxing Village and tell my mother to stay for a while, then let my second uncle’s bike come back, and I would happily climb the second brother’s bike and say goodbye to my parents.. Later, my two aunts and their family moved to Baoji with their two uncles. The dopted mother’s family also moved to a new home and lived in Xinjie. I also learned to ride a bike myself. I had a high beam and my ass couldn’t reach the saddle. I often went to visit dopted mother on vacation. At that time, the dirt road in the countryside was not easy to walk. After I got home, the gifts in the sugar cage in the back seat of the bike were often all scattered, but dopted mother never abandoned it.. If it was winter vacation, dopted mother heard my cry and hurried out to meet me. She saw me stop the car at random and hugged me. She shouted her lovely son, put my red-frozen hand in her arms and warmed me. She called her brothers to pour boiling water for me, take candy for candy, park bicycles to park bicycles and move sugar cages for sugar cages. She held me to sit on the hot kang. She could not help kissing me after I won the first place in the exam. Her mouth shouted her good son, good son and little brother to learn from me.! My brothers were busy and took off their shoes and went to the kang to give me the warmest place, and everyone around me asked the east to ask the west to be warm and affectionate..     Later, as I grew older, I had less time to live in my mother’s house. My brothers also got married one after another. My eldest brother and my third brother had a new homestead and moved out after building it. My second brother took an examination of the university and went to work in Shanghai. My younger brother took his father’s class after graduating from junior high school and was also in the provincial capital.. Every time I go to my mother’s house, I will go to work with my godmother. When I cook, my sister-in-law and sister-in-law all run over to help the kitchen. My godmother and sister-in-law accompany us to talk. While the family is busy at dinner, my sisters-in-law at home are separated from each other, but their relationship with godmother is close. My brothers are still in harmony and meimei. I have never had a prosperous face. My godmother and sister-in-law’s face always walked with each other.. Later, when brothers had children, they also let godparents take care of them. The eldest brother and the third brother worked in agriculture when they were busy. They were all big craftsmen in the construction industry, and their days were also flourishing..     Later, when I got married, dopted parents and sister-in-law hired a pickup truck, pulled several new quilts, new mattresses, dopted mother’s own homespun sheets, and many gifts. Neighbors envy, saying that they are richer than their daughter’s dowry, although my family also gave a gift when several older brothers married, which is not comparable to the scenery of dopted mother’s family. dopted mother cheerfully said that this is my daughter-in-law and happy?!     I bought a house in the city and invited dopted mothers and dads to live in it several times. They always pushed off and said they couldn’t leave home and wanted to bring their grandchildren. Later, my sister-in-law gave birth in winter and dopted mothers came to Xi ‘an. I managed to take dopted mothers to stay for a few days and have a good reception for a few days. I bought dopted mothers underwear, which was a little filial piety, but severely and firmly refused when I gave money.. The dopted mother has repeatedly stressed that my wife and I should work well. Don’t worry about her and my dopted father, saying that my dopted father has a retirement salary and they can’t spend it all. Besides, my brothers are filial and my sisters-in-law often come to their hometown to help with their work and can’t afford to tire of her and my dopted father.. My wife and I are still using the handmade homespun bed sheets given by dopted mother. Every time we wash them, we use our hands for fear that the washing machine will break down. After so many years, we always feel comfortable and comfortable sleeping on the bed sheets given by dopted mother. The bed sheets have always been filled with thick maternal love.. Although every time I go back to my hometown, I will definitely visit my parents, but I always feel that my heart is empty. My parents love me and regard me as their own, but I return too little to the old man’s house..     Today on Mother’s Day, I spoke to dopted mother on the phone and couldn’t help tears streaming down silently. I repeatedly cried: Mom, Mom, dopted mother responded with every sound of excitement ……